Laugh

Well after sad comes laughter...... had to post a photo of my eldest Son enjoying himself for a change, sorry it may spoil his image of bah humbug, but.............

Sad

Sad post today.... Just had to take sister in law with her cat to visit the vets.. thinking a few pills, but sadly they had to put the cat to sleep, so have a very upset sister in law, and of course having been there myself to have cats put to sleep, not nice memories...still better than the cat suffering...

Oscar gave me a good sniff when I came home, and is now sitting very quietly with sad eyes, I wonder if he knows...

Off to get cheered up on some blogs......so I can post a happier post tomorrow.....

Boxing Day

Good morning bloggers.....hope everyone enjoyed a good Christmas, whatever you were doing..whether you like or hate Christmas!

I had a wonderful day...my two sons came for the day... and we had relations call in.. lots of phone calls from friends, and good food...and wine... and still more food....

Not too many people on Alistair's site, they were enjoying their Christmas day as well...

Christmas is a hard day without my hubby, but the boys made up for it, I am a lucky Mum, as they look after me.... they may think I do not realise how much they put themselves out for me, but I do, and I love them dearly...

Thanks, if you look in, the bloggers from Dives blog for wishing me a happy Christmas....I hope you all continue to write those great stories, love them...and I hope you all have a great New Year.

CHRISTMAS

Thought I would share a little poem I have had for years, and as so many people are not into Christmas.... thought it might be something for them to think about.... before I start forgive me if I do not put the commas and capitals in the right place (Dive)....

I have a list of folks I know, all written in a book.
And every year at Christmas time I go and take a look.
And that is when I realise that these names are a part,
Not of the book they're written in, but of my very heart.

Each name stands for someone whose path touched mine,
and then, left such a print of friendship that I want to touch again.
And while it sounds fantastic for me to make this claim,
I really feel I am composed of each remembered name.

So never think of Christmas cards as just a mere routine.
Of names upon a Christmas list, forgotten in between.
For when I send a Christmas card that is addressed to you,
It's because you're on that list of folks I am indebted to.

And every year when Christmas comes I realise anew,
The biggest gift life can give,is meeting folks like you.
And may the Spirit of Christmas that forever endures.
leave its richest blessings in the hearts of you and yours....

Happy Christmas....

Oscar

Oscar now has flashes in his eyes, when David surprised him by taking his photo..

Sorry that the Monkey tree spiders worried some of you!!!but you must admit it was very seasonal......

Hope everyone has a Merry Christams..

Alistair Christmas 2006

This is Alistair bursting out of a christmas box at his gig on Sunday night, thanks for letting me borrow the photo girls...also thanks to a great friend on Al's site I was able to listen to half of the gig over the phone....

Christmas Tree

Just could not resist this... my monkey tree that David grew from a seed many years ago, just looked so like christmas this morning...with natures helping hand....

Christmas

Sitting in bed in the early hours of this morning, as usual sleep evading me again...feeling very sorry for myself and low, my thoughts turned to Christmas and its meaning .....starting with the past when I was small..I suppose like many Mums and Dads there were hard times, but always my family made Christmas special for us children.. A small 3 bedroomed house was full of family and relations, however did 10 or more people and dogs have room and Christmas dinners sitting round our little table, lots of lovely cooking smells, and laughter... a sock with Orange and nuts and presents, not many in those days, Church services and Carols... has my memory forgotten if there were bad times, good, I hope so, because all I remember is the love and good times.

When our Sons were born, how lucky and happy we were, and the Christmas's we had were so wonderful the boys had pillowcases stuffed with goodies and I have always loved cooking so lots of food and fun, not a lot of money but lots of happiness, well is this my memory playing me up again, I hope not, as I remember the love.... do they? I wonder, was it the same for them, or do they remember it differently, they are not keen on Christmas now, so was it something we did wrong? I hope not I like to think they have good memories....of love and good times.

When my dear husband passed away on October the 29th 2002, he was the love of my life my rock and after 46 very happy years, life changed, and Christmas did too..... despite having my wonderful sons it will never be the same....I want so much that they be happy, because I love them with all my heart, as did their Dad....

But have we forgotten what Christmas is all about. whether we believe the story of a baby born in the stable, surely we should try and and have at least one day when all our worries. wars, greed, drugs, and murders can be put to one side and all the commercial hype which seems to be what Christmas is about nowadays... are put on hold and the true meaning of Christmas, Peace, Joy, Love. friends and family...

So no matter how we are feeling, we must remember that there are so many people much worse off than us, and for a while let us all live with good happy memories and enjoy a Christmas of happiness and love...

If that sounds sloopy and silly ...well maybe it is, but we only have one life, so let us make it a happy memory...this old mad bint will sign off with wishing each of you bloggers a happy, healthy and wonderful Christmas......

Alistair gig

Morning.... have not posted much, after reading so many interesting blogs, never think I have much to say..

However, Alistair had a gig last night in York, and a lot of the fans from Al's site went, had a phone call from one of the girls for all of the first half, which was great.

We have a cinderella party on line, as several people receive phone calls from the people at the gig, you can feel like you are there...

I really hope he can get a cd out for everyone this next year, we of course manage to get hold of his recordings, but are not allowed to have recordings of other peoples songs...so it is a good job he writes so many himself....

I have been busy with baking for Christmas.....I usually bake for a few people who are unable to... so my bungalow smells of Christmas for a nice long time!

Off to catch up on a few blogs... Have a happy Monday..